I don't 'get' hair. I strongly suspect I never will. It's not
something I'm passionate about, or even interested in, and I have been fed up
with mine for a long time.
I am, however, trying to do 'something' to
make it a bit more acceptable.
I'm hoping a few blog posts will help me
log my progress and learnings, and, maybe, an expect will comment and solve all
my problems.
My hair is wavy, and I like my waves, but
it is also frizzy.
I don't like spending a lot of time on my
hair. My ideal hair care routine would be a wash with shampoo and conditioner,
towel drying and brushing through. I don't mind running another product through
my hair, with my hands, but I have no patience for blow drying, straightening
or curling.
I've read enough articles to know some of
the science about hair and I've tried all sorts of products over the years,
without any real success. I had a long phase of straightening my hair in
2006/7, but when I realised my dry, dead, and split ends were climbing up I stopped.
I thought I'd had some success with putting some product in my hair when it was
wet, twisting or scrunching it up into a bun or clip, and letting it dry
naturally before taking the clip out, until I started receiving comments that
my hair always looked wet, AKA, greasy.
Anyway, a couple of years ago I decided I
needed to start at the basics, I needed to get my hair cut more often, no
longer only when I wanted a change, but regularly, to try and keep it growing
healthy from root to tip. I also needed a Hairdresser who knew what they were
talking about. I wanted someone who saw me walk into the salon and knew
straight away what the perfect cut would be for me, someone who had the
knowledge and confidence to help me get it right.
In my attempts to find someone I quickly
became annoyed with how many different Hairdressers didn't know what to suggest
or who suggested so many options it was clear they didn't know much more than I did. They asked me what I wanted, but I was paying them to be
the expert! I knew nothing about hair, I just wanted something that
wasn't a mess.
Eventually, I decided to spend a bit more
money on going to a pricier salon and I finally found what I was looking for.
I know it's just sales, but I've been buying
everything my Hairdresser recommends, in search of my miracle product.
I exasperated him when I was
last in. He asked me how my products were working and I told him that there'd been
no change, my hair was as much a mess as ever. Maybe I needed more time using
them? During the course of him cutting my latest trim I explained about my wet twisted bun method and he said I couldn't expect the products to work if I put
no effort in.
He instructed me to buy a round bristle
brush and to blow dry my hair whenever I washed it, every two/three days. I
went home and looked for YouTube videos on how to blow dry hair. Seems it may
take some getting used to, so I will keep it up until my next appointment.
I
have also bought a round bristle brush, one that has the highest ratings on the
Boots website.
I've now tried blow drying my hair on several occasions and I can't say I'm overly impressed. Yes, it is straight, but
it's frizzy as ever, if not more so. I have a bottle of Argon Oil in my draw at
work, another product I'm experimenting with, and I found my hair so messy throughout the day that I had to get it out and work it through my hair on multiple occasions. At least that tames it for a little while.
I've seen no next-day benefit either. Usually if I have my hair straightened properly it lasts for a couple of days, but my hair is just the same, frizzy and tangled as it's always been, a day after blow drying.
Still, it's nice to feel my hair light again. I didn't realise how much I'd been weighing it down by working some
product through it while wet and twisting it up to dry.
I'm discouraged, but unsurprised. I'm
going to take this photo with me to show my Hairdresser next time he asks for a report.